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Elder Duncan *edit

Elder Duncan *edit

So, in my last post, I didn’t get to mention that my not-so-little baby brother left for a mission for the LDS Church last Wednesday.

Jake D. Mission

He will be in the Missionary Training Center (MTC) at Provo, Utah, for about 7 more weeks before flying out to his final missionary destination, in FIJI. Yes, you read that right. FIJI- island in the south pacific. Is this work, or a vacation in disguise?

I’m incredibly proud of Jacob, and I know he will put his heart and soul into what he will be doing in Fiji. I also think it’s neat that he’ll get to learn Fijian.  I’ll miss conversing with him on the phone as often, but he’s going to be doing a lot of good things for the people of Fiji, and I’m sure he will learn a lot from the experiences.

Good luck, Elder! You are awesome.

Jake Mission 2

P.S. These pictures are courtesy of my wonderful Aunt Linda… I took them off her blog… thanks!

AVID

AVID

AVID stands for Advancement Via Individual Determination.

wha????

Actually, it’s a really cool theory or process. This was the training I was at in Dallas all last week. (By the way, let me start out by saying Jared survived my absence remarkably well…. the dogs kept him busy enough not to have time to even miss me!)

Basically, there’s the “School Game”. This is where some of us figure out when a teacher says, “This is important,” or, “This may be on the test,” we who know THE GAME take out a sheet of paper and start to write furiously. Most students don’t pick up on that. Or the fact that a textbook has subheadings, bold, italicized, underlined print, and/or pictures and figures for a reason–emphasizing (ideally)  the important information.

Many students just don’t get it. They think they are just dumb–especially kids from low socioeconomic backgrounds, kids that potentially are going to be the first generation to go to college, kids that are in the foster care system, etc. NOT TRUE! AVID is preparing them to:

1) Understand how to make it through high school through difficult classes (like AP classes);

2)  Find out ways to apply for colleges and find ways to fund it; and

3) Once in college, successfully stay there and graduate and be successful in their own careers.

It’s all about enabling these students.  Letting them know that we know they CAN do these classes, can make it to college, that it’s OKAY to be successful in school…. And lets face it- those of us who made it to college on our own still made lots of little mistakes that we wished we hadn’t, right? Did poorly in some classes- couldn’t figure out exactly what professors were after, etc. AVID gives them strategies to become successful (And really, everyone could really benefit from these strategies- I wish I had them when I was a young student…).

Anyways, I had a lot of fun. We got to stay in the very nice Hyatt Regency hotel.

Hyatt

when we got to break down into smaller groups for individual subject matter and levels of AVID knowledge, I got to go to the beautiful Adolphus hotel. It had a great, inspiring theme, perfect for the English teacher in me. It’s the kind of hotel you could write a ghost story about with it’s great antebellum south feel.

adolphus

And, while riding the DART (Dallas Area Rapid Transportation system/subway) I noticed a lot of the trains had these awesome “Poetry in Motion” plaques on the inside, where you could read a variety of poems as you waited to get to your location.

Poetry in Motion

How awesome is that?! Okay, yes, I am a nerd, but you all knew that anyways because I chose to be a teacher (of literature/language arts/english) of all the other awesome professional options out there!

I made some really great friends on the trip, and hopefully I can get some of their much nicer pictures (ones NOT taken with my grainy little cell phone quality). I had a fabulous time and learned some great strategies and ways I can be a better teacher for my kids!

I’d write more, but the baby Bonnie lass has awoken and is  using one of my hands as a chew toy… so I better pay attention to here before i lose a finger to those sharp little teeth! Lets end with a pic of the puppies in a better, non-chewing moment:

Bonzors and the Stevie

Bad results?

Bad results?

So, I just had the second nerve-block shot for my head yesterday.

My experience between the two shots has been terrible.

Last week,  a day after my first shot, my head was tender to touch and overall, more painful than before the shot. This and persistent nausea persisted for about 4 days.

Last night, I couldn’t sleep because I was freezing- but every time I woke up, I was covered with sweat. Sorry for the not-so-pretty image. Don’t dwell on it. It’s just like my body lost its ability to maintain temperature control.

Same sort of head pain and nausea, plus just overall exhausted by the lack of sleep.

I am very worried that I am not going in the right direction. One thing that people have hinted at is a potential thyroid problem.

Shout out to my blood relatives- any of you know of someone in the family with migraine or thyroid issues?

On a happier note, I found a snake in the house this morning. I think he’s an Eastern Worm Snake, but generally they are found in Southern Carolina. Apparently, NOT ANY MORE!!  This is the third one I have come across (the others were outside, thankfully) which I think helped me NOT flip out as I saw it slither it’s 5 inch body across my tile floor.

Snake

Kinda cute, for a snake. Apparently they only grow up to 15 inches long and are harmless to humans.

I think he’s growing on me. Maybe Jared will let me keep him and call him Pinky. 😉

Almost Christmas

Almost Christmas

The weather here is almost cold enough to be Christmas-y. Yesterday was in the 70s(!) and today, 30s. It even tried to snow! Nothing stuck, of course. Besides that, for several minutes, there were icy flakes falling from the sky. Thanks, weather! I appreciate the attempt to recreate the ideal Christmas atmosphere outside.

Did I ever mention how I LOVE this time of year? Let me list the ways:

1.No kids from 8-4:30

2. No getting up at 5:30 to get ready for work.

3. No work for two whole glorious weeks.

4. I love giving people gifts.

5. I love surprising people by doing nice things for them.

6. I have the time to do #4 and #5.

7. We get to celebrate one of the best events in human history.

8. There’s time set aside to appreciate family, friends, and our Savior.

As you can see, I could go on for quite awhile. I am grateful for my job and the opportunity I get to work with amazing young individuals on a near daily basis, but it is also nice to be able to have a restful break from the stress of such an important job.

I have been making goodies for people. I LOVE baking and cooking. As much as I enjoy eating what I made, I also want to share it too. (After all, eating a whole batch of cookies is not so friendly to the waist.) Some people were afraid I was bringing them goodies to get something in return, and that always makes me sad. When I was a child, I am sure that was part of the motivation behind it, but truly, I just like to show my appreciation for people.

In giving treats out, I finally met our nearest neighbors in our ward. I just meant to drop a plate of goodies by and then leave, but I ended up staying for almost two hours. I hadn’t met them previously because of the husband’s heart condition. It’s possible that they were one of the sweetest and funniest couples I have met in a long time. The poor wife was incredibly sad that she hadn’t met me sooner and tried to apologize about being overwhelmed with her husband being in and out of the hospital. I couldn’t say enough how I completely understood. She felt like she should be doing more service to others, when her husband of 55 years is severely ill with his congestive heart failure. I gave her my number and told her to call me if they ever needed anything. I also got to interact with her husband. For a man whose heart is running at 10% capacity, he’s a sharp as can be. I laughed pretty hard talking to him.

I truly enjoyed going over to meet them. However, I cannot imagine the pain they are going through. There would be so much sadness involved in losing your partner, your best friend, of 55 years, no matter what you believe may happen after death. Seeing them suffer must be almost as horrible. And this sweet woman felt bad that she hadn’t had the time to meet me yet, and welcome me. One of the worst feelings in the world for me is that feeling that you are being pulled apart with everything that is on your plate, and still feeling like you should be doing more. I could tell she was feeling that same way. It helps me understand when my mom says, “Sometimes, you just need to let people serve you.”

All of these things just remind me to enjoy this time of year more. I was able to spend all day with Jared, just relaxing, talking, and playing around with our dog.  We watched two versions of my favorite Christmas story, “The Christmas Carol” (The Disney version and a 1990(?) version with Patrick Stewart).

Jared has now banished me to the upstairs so he can wrap my presents for tomorrow. I can’t say enough how much I love him. He’s a wonderful man, and I am lucky to have him. I am happy to spend our THIRD Christmas together, and our first in our new home.

I hope everyone has a chance to spend time with the people they care about and love during this time of year, and can appreciate the joy that can come from it.

3 more days…

3 more days…

I know I have been horrible with keeping up with the blog. For those of you who are kind enough to occasionally check up on it, I appreciate your patience!

I have been so busy with school and preparing for the holidays. Thanksgiving was great. We went back to Utah and got to spend quality time with both of our families for the week. 5 days was not nearly enough time to do everything we wanted. However, we spent a lot of time seeing family, even some extended family, like Nana and Grandpa (who drove ALL day Friday to see us Friday night!!!) and Grandma Boothe and some of the extended aunts/uncles/cousins.  I miss a lot of the people up there, but I realized how much I missed Texas, too. It made me realize that I am starting to put down roots here, and how I absolutely enjoy and love it here.

(Not having the snow and 0 degree weather is an added bonus, too!)

My kids at school are crazy. Love them, but let’s face it. Nobody looks back at 7th grade and says, “Wow, that was the BEST year ever!” It is a time chock-full of awkward growing phases, hormones, and friendships. I’m just telling ya how it is. Not trying to hurt anyone’s feelings. I went through an awkard stage from about ages 8-20.

Back to the crazy kids. I still think this year is light years better than last year.  (I apparently didn’t do too badly last year; I have several kids who have dropped by my room to say hello and update me on how they are doing- wow!) I just am amazed at how… weird kids can be. Today, during the break time in my last class, a kid was meowing at the back of the class. Fortunately most of the kiddos were out getting a drink or socializing as this exchange occurred:

Him: “Meow meow meow meow…”

Me: “_______, are you a cat?”

Him: “No….”

Me: “Then why are you meowing?”

Him: “Uuuuuh…. I dunno. I probably should stop, huh?”

This is a conversation I have pretty much daily with one student or another for various sounds and strange behaviors. They do not prepare you for THOSE kinds of events in college classes. I could make some good money having a class titled: “Why Are My Students Weird? 101.”

Come and participate in the groundbreaking class, “Why Are My Students Weird? 101!”

You will learn how to address:

–He’s touching me!

–Strange sounds & noises

–Boy/Girl interactions

–Teaching students to filter conversations (Not say whatever comes to mind)

-And much much more!

I think it sounds like a great idea…. yes? I guess you can probably tell I am ready for the Christmas break.

Christmas time is one of the best times of the year. I love it. I love giving gifts and buying things for other people, and decorating the house with all sorts of festive items, and having the big, beautiful, colorful Christmas tree in our new living room. There’s so much to be happy and thankful for, and this time of year just highlights the best in humankind. 🙂